(This was a special writing I submitted to a writing site to see if I could be chosen for submission.
They did not choose mine, so I am posting it here.)
Kindness is a healer
I heard something one day that said, “your kindness leads us to repentance, Oh Lord.’
This always takes me to the memory of the first time meeting a counselor who I would work with for many years.
He was gentle, and soft spoken and most of all KIND.
It spoke volumes to me.
My home growing up was not a kind one.
It was about learning to hold your breath, laying low and don’t get noticed.
It was about staying quiet and to yourself.
Walls of protection was needed and every day we never really knew if there would be rage or silence.
The kindness I learned from this very special counselor nurtured the part of my heart that never experienced it.
Words spoken in a small room were actually listened to. And felt safe for the first time.
I often think of the story of Mary in the New Testament especially after watching the chosen movie.
She was broken and needed something more than she was used to receiving.
Jesus met her with kindness and compassion.
She HEARD that and felt it.
When he spoke her name, it was with gentleness in tone, it was not critical or toxic.
I believe she repented and turned away from her confusion because HE was inviting and kind.
I know I respond to kindness.
I respond to non-threatening words.
A simple soft word ministers to a wounded spirit. Always.
The thing that I have learned throughout my counseling days, is the art of listening.
What a gift it is to give to someone.
I have experienced trauma on many levels.
But in saying that I don’t have to stay there.
I can share hope.
I can share life and healing to those who feel broken and without hope.
I will never compare pain as we know that all pain is different.
Kindness heals.
It is like a beautiful blanket wrapped around someone who is struggling to put one foot in front of the other.
It is a hope filled cheerleader saying, “You can do it, I believe in you.”
Kindness is a healer, and the best gift we can give someone.