by Sharon O | Apr 4, 2025 | Uncategorized
Easter is coming and as we prepare our hearts, I have a cute little story to share.
When our granddaughter Faith was about 2, we decided she was old enough to help us do the eggs.
Tradition is to boil them, color them, hide them and find them then put them back in the fridge till dinner.
Well, she was ok with some of it kind of humoring her ‘grandma and grandpa’.
We would go through the movements of preparing the eggs.
She was in a darling little dress, and we found her a basket.
We said to her, “let’s go find the eggs outside.”
Grandpa had placed them in pretty easy spots to find.
She questioned us. “Why do I need to go find them I didn’t lose them.”
In her mind, why on earth would you cook eggs and then put them outside once colored.
It does sound a bit silly, but we wanted a fun day for her.
She was a first granddaughter and believe me it was all about making her life easy and fun.
So back to the egg finding, “let’s go get the eggs.”
She said to us again with a firmer tone that a little one can muster up.
(Just in case we didn’t hear her the first time,)
“But I didn’t LOSE them, why do I have to find them?”
We talked her into it finally, she found her basket and said rather loudly, “I am looking everywhere.”
It was a priceless moment this grandma will always remember.
And really it is a silly tradition.
Speaking of tradition.
Easter has always been for family including food and church and small Easter baskets for the kids.
The days of dressing up is long gone now although occasionally I will see the little kids dressed up.
We enter this season of Easter through reflection and as we prepare our hearts we are reminded of the story.
It was not an easy one and after watching some of the ‘chosen show’, the humanity of Jesus was always alongside the Godly side of him.
As we move towards the Easter weekend, I pray our hearts are open to the power and the Prescence and the perfect love that awaits us.
Easter is coming and as we prepare our hearts let us remember and re-visit the story.
by Sharon O | Mar 17, 2025 | Uncategorized
A new month full of changes.
I had my eyes corrected, having both cataracts removed.
I am not a good patient and really had to stretch myself on this one.
They do give you drugs to have you not be awake during surgery.
The right eye went well other than I got sick apparently, I was not able to take heavy drugs.
Had a great deal of nausea and had to work that out of my system, as we headed for home.
My left eye has had adjustments too. They give you a new lens and apparently my body is not appreciating this foreign thing.
I did not have the heavy drugs during my left eye surgery, and it seems to be way more sensitive.
Hoping in time it will settle down and I can see better.
I was really discouraged when we got home, and I could not read anything.
I just could not believe it seemed worse than before I started.
The doctor reassured me today it will all heal and be better.
I have purchased 6 pairs of reading glasses and two pair of cute sunglasses.
Good grief I didn’t think it would be such a big deal.
Tiem will have to be my friend on this one because my patience is being tested to the fullest.
We don’t know how much we appreciate eyesight and when we don’t have it, what a major change.
I kept thinking of my cousin who is legally blind telling myself she would do anything in her power to get her sight back.
I had to keep being brave.
MY MOTTO for this year.
We also had to take our 11-year-old cat to the vet thinking we were going to have to put her down.
She fooled us and had perfect lab tests done and she is very healthy just a bit underweight.
This expensive month has been a test for sure.
A new month of full of changes and life moves on into this new year.
by Sharon O | Feb 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
Yesterday was my sister’s birthday. She passed away in June of 2019.
We were about a year and a half apart she was older. I am the youngest daughter of four.
It’s hard for my other sister to think of me as 70 years old. I have always been ‘the baby’.
We grow up and life happens.
My sister had a rough life. She was by nature a wandering child. She moved to her own drum beat and
the life she chose brought addictions and ill health.
We do pay for what we choose.
I brought her home from Arkansas many years ago. I knew if I did not do anything I would never see her again.
She flew out to Oregon with my help. and visited with our parents and family.
I made it a nice time visiting the Oregon coast and t took her to a nice restaurant not knowing that was not at all like her life at home.
When it was time to send her home, I took her to the airport, and I told her to wait for me.
I parked my car went in to where she would be, and she was not there.
I panicked and paged her over the intercom system of the airport.
NO one knew where she was.
We discovered she wea already on the plane and sitting in her ‘row’ like a passenger wanting to go home.
The pilot let her go off the plane to say goodbye to me.
Life was often and adventure with her.
Later she returned to us with her whole family like the Beverly hillbillies and a car loaded with all they owned.
She lived her life around family, and it was both good and hard.
Her name was Mary.
She had a life that was challenging and also bittersweet.
We did all that we could do to keep her safe and healthy till she decided that was not her ‘ultimate goal’.
Yesterday was my sister’s birthday and I will always miss her.
by Sharon O | Jan 26, 2025 | Uncategorized
I am watching the season change. The air is still crispy cool, and we have not had any ‘solid’ rain in a few weeks.
Our area is known for rain and coolness. I am looking forward to spring days where we can go to the nursery and purchase flowers.
I am not one to putter in the garden, but I do love the veggies in the summer and fresh flowers for my table.
Because of the cats we can’t really have bouquets in the house, but I find room outside and enjoy them there.
We recently purchased two ‘new to us’ cars. We feel pretty blessed by the one we found and the ability to get them.
Next month I am scheduled to have my yes worked on. Removing the cataracts that have found their way into my vision.
I am very nervous about it, but everyone says it is not a problem, and the doctor said I will get a little nap.
We have five appointments on the calendar, and it will all be done by the end of March.
Just in time for summer.
Our camping season will begin around May, and we have a new tow rig that can pull our travel trailer.
The first place will be the beach, The ocean is healing to me and oh God knows my heart needs healing and calm.
Too many things have taken place and it’s catching up with me.
God does give us strength to press on and move forward, looking back is not helpful.
I have not been doing much on this space since it is more difficult for me to see.
Soon I hope with my eyes fixed and my new computer I will be able to write like I am used to doing.
Getting ole is not for the faint of heart and I think my 70’s might be a bit more challenging.
I am watching the season change and anticipate warm weather and fun times of exploring new places. 
by Sharon O | Jan 15, 2025 | Uncategorized
Another year has begun and my goodness we have had some interesting days.
Without going into details, it’s just been hard.
Life gets difficult as we age and often times things happen that are out of our control.
God will give us strength to press forward and taking one step at a time it will bring healing.
The month is half over and I had my birthday turning 70 and my husband has his very soon, turning 71.
The Oregon days have been grey and cold, and I am definitely feeling my age.
Spring can come and daffodils can bloom, and the days can get much lighter and warmth.
Our precious great grandbaby is now six months old.
We love her so much and she is a happy baby most of the time.
Hard to believe our daughter is a grandma.
Our pastor has been doing a fabulous series every Sunday… HE is SO so good.
Grace Chapel, Wilsonville Oregon if you are curious.
I don’t have a lot of identifiers on anything anymore since my Facebook was hacked,
unfortunately, I have lost a few really good friends because of that mess.
I try to tell myself if they were really good friends, they would have questioned me before
they cut me off.
I get no reply or response, and I guess at this point that is their decision.
Pretty sad. I knew them a very long time and I really thought we were good friends.
The hackers were a nightmare, and I am so thankful they are gone. (at least I think they are)
You never realize what kind of evil is out there till you get your ‘family’ photos stolen by someone pretending to be You.
I pray it is over. It needs to go away forever.
I need quiet days without worry of what is next.
Another year has begun and my goodness we have had some interesting days.
